Today I wanted to give props to two people who need to be recognized as outstanding individuals.

The first is Tamera Tanner. I met Tamara through Twitter, mainly because we have a common interest, horses. Tamara runs an outstanding foundation, The Straighter Way Foundation, that uses horses in therapeutic settings. Basically, the foundation gives people who wouldn’t normally get the chance to have an opportunity to experience what its like to ride a horse.

I’m proud become part of this foundation, and they could really use your help. To learn more please visit the web site at http://www.tswf.org/.

The next person I want to give a shout out too is David N Wilson. It wasn’t a big thing, but it was much appreciated. David re-tweeted my request to talk to someone about conventions. I appreciate the effort David. And, did you know that David is a rock star author? Well then, hurry on over to his web site and learn more about his writing. And more importantly, buy some of his books.

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A few days ago I connected with Guy Rosen on Twitter. Guy has a lot of great things to say, and I wanted to talk about one of his recent posts.

Guy gives some advice on how to handle tough decisions. We all face these from time to time, and as a writer, I face them often. When to cut a paragraph, or a sentence, or even a word, out of the story. In his book The 10% Solution, Kend Rand talks about cutting, and cutting and cutting, until you have eliminated all the bloat.

David Allen’s Getting Things Done calls for you to make a decision on something right then. If you are unable to complete the task in under two minutes, defer to a later time or date. Guy suggests something a little different. He suggest you sit on it for a bit. When it comes to writing, I would agree. Write something then let it simmer. Don’t edit right away.

Guys next suggestion is to confer. Don’t make any hasty decisions, brainstorm you ideas. I couldn’t agree more. When I am mapping out a new story, I like to throw out ideas to my family and friends to see what they think. I can usually get a reality check from someone. I want to gauge the reaction. I want to see what someone is going to say just from my elevator pitch.

Choice can cause people to become comatose. For some people, making a choice, is very difficult, especially when it comes to writing. Which characters die. Which live. What part of the plot to re-write, which to change or remove. But you do have to make a choice. Don’t be afraid to make them. That’s the cool part about writing, I get to choose what happens. I give characters a world to play in then direct them, including their destiny. It can be empowering.

The fourth piece of advice Guy gives is to choose the lesser evil. OK, so you just can’t choose what to do. Choose the lesser evil. Or turn it around, choose the greater evil and shock the reader. Not too much. But a twist isn’t a bad thing. If you think the reader is going to expect one thing to happen, do the complete opposite. See what happens.

have you ever met someone who over analyses things? Maybe you are one of these people. It takes a lot of research, and the opinions of others for you to feel comfortable. I’m probably the complete opposite. I tend to make decisions based on as little information as I can. If I feel it’s a good choice based on what I have discovered, then I don’t wast any time moving forward. This type of analyzing has its draw backs, but I can’t stand to agonize over something. I prefer to take it head on and move forward.

The final piece of advice Guy give is to use your instincts. And I couldn’t agree more. No one but you knows what the right thing is. If you do it someone else’s way, you’ll probably be disappointed. You’ve grown up listening to your gut. Don’t stop. It’s the best guide you can have.

What is your advice for handling tough decisions?

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